People continue to ask the same questions about porn that they have for decades: Is porn good for us or bad for us? Is it immoral or is it empowering? Damaging or liberating?

Porn can deliver there at best, or disgust at worst. It all depends on what we choose to watch. And a word about sex or porn addiction. Unlike a chemical substance, like opiates, it can’t become “addicted” to sex or porn, it can become a compulsive viewer. In this case, it’s not the porn that’s the problem; it’s the compulsive personality. If it weren’t porn being used to act out one’s compulsive nature, it might be food or some other behavior.

According to recent survey, The American Urological Association revealed that Porn-addicted men are more likely to suffer from loss of Libido and also erectile dysfunction, with less sexual satisfaction.

Many people can enjoy porn regularly or just check it out once in a while without concern. Others don’t like it or find that it’s more trouble than it’s worth.

But for every aspect there is merits & demerits is very common, in Porn the merit is this can used as a tool for many sexual dysfunctions for both men & women.

For couple sex therapy especially in Unconsummated marriages we will use romantic porn videos to educate for mutual sexual stimulations and also for sexual intercourse positions.

In women, One of the primary bases for using pornography in the treatment of these issues has been the concept of desensitisation. The idea is that women who are anxious about engaging in particular kinds of heterosexual sex can be encouraged to participate by being shown images and films of these acts while practising relaxation techniques. It was thought that this would eventually lead to lessening inhibition about having sex with a male partner.

Porn in therapy used as education and desensitisation purpose in sexual dysfunctions and also sometime in premaital counseling as a sexuality education. It will help many patients learn easily and effectively because of visualisation make more attractive.

Porn, like so many things, is a very individual, very personal thing. But get to decide what’s the best.